Except if you choose not to help her,she shows she's perfectly capableof doing it on her own and grows far more as a person as a result. and those xhoices for your party members aren't even half of the deconstructive aspect. The message in this particular instance is that handholding will get you nowhere. As someone who's been topsychotherapy, I can see a lot of parallels - the therapist asks questions but ultimatelu, you have to learn how to pull yourself up.