BioWare has always edged towards idealism when it comes to Paragon or 'good' choices. I don't mind it so much, because I always play good guys. I'm playing Dragon Age: Inquisition now with an 'honest' character, who's made some rough choices and it is smurfing tough for me.

Bring Down The Sky does have a good dilemma though, that's for sure.

As for the voices, FemShep is definitely better than MaleShep, but they both improve as they set into their voices more over the course of the series.