Haha, no, the server is not in my house. We have a host. It is just that I did not set this site up, just inherited it. And I am not very technical.
The good news is that I get an alert when the CPU overloads and it is pretty quick to restart the server. I also got some advice from the host and there is definitely some process that is running and downward spiraling the site to crash. I am looking at the logs to see what it could be. There are a lot of automated processes that we really don’t need for a site this small.