I used to be like that too, but I've learned to just let it go. In FFI I guess I can say I've "mastered" it over the years that I don't ever die, with the exception of from Rub/Kill. In FF3j, I find it almost impossible to not have a character miss at least one battle, especially when fighting the Big Rat. I'm not big on spending time leveling up, so that hurts sometimes as well.