yeah, that is why I think people generally choose one or the other. Either to have a large group of people they hang out with (with several members of the opposite sex within the group) and not to really go on many official dates.

Or to go on official dates for the most part on a frequent basis and not to have a large group of friends with members of the opposite sex within the group that you see or hang out with on a regular basis.


If you think about it. Both approaches are kind of serving the same purpose. Which is to find a possible future marriage partner. Both just kind of have different pros and cons.