She adopted the kid herself, from Cambodia.

There's a lot more to raising a kid than this. Looking more towards her needs? What, by going out once in a while? She isnt doing this 24/7. That's like saying a single mother is ignoring her child by going out on dates. She had needs too. She isnt leaving this kid at home alone to go out for 10 hours a day and to have sex. That's way out of proportion.

Could she be a bad mother? Of course. This doesnt make her a bad mother. Judging people on one thing you know about them isnt at all fair. I dont know this woman well enough to judge her as a parent.