Education, Education, Education. That's what Iraq needs more than a forced democracy. If and when Iraq and its citizens understands exactly what the rights and responsiblities of having a democracy is, then I think they'd be better off. America should brush up on this topic too.
Hypothetical:
If Iraq gets the power handed over to them in June, then vote for a Religious Leader, who would possibly institute a theocracy, to govern the country, would America be in the right to reject this election?
I believe that if the Iraqi people are given a real education on various ideals, not just American beliefs, but just general tolerance towards others, then they will see that mixing religion and law isn't the way to really go and actually be able to create a stable government that preaches tolerance not just among all religions, but among all people, women included.
Just one person's opinion.
Take care all.