Yea as he said, you dont like BOSS them around, but you are going to have to try to help accellerate the PT overall. Like suggeust what WSs to do for Skillchains. Because many times if i dont ask, sometimes there isnt one. So as leader, take initiative, try to give advice in a good manner. Dont tell them to USE SNEAK ATTACK OR I WILL B00tzorz you!. Ok extreme, but the point is dont "Teach them", give them sugguestions are fine. Because teaching, unless they are newb or something, doesnt usually work. You are also responsible for kick party members out that are hindering 5 other people. Recruiting the RIGHT party members too, its also dependant on you.

Where it doesnt usually make that much of a deal that your leader or not so long the party goes right and everyone is having a fun time, sometimes a leader is good because it does help everyone go in a general sense of direction. Especially if you play with japanese players who willsubmit under the leader and will try to be htat way due to cultural differences. Party members respect some of the leader's sugguestions and things, if you dont agree ask respectfully, party leaders try to think of everyone in the party and try to make it go smoother. Member to Leader relationships(unless in a group of friends) are mutual.

But again it doesnt matter too much if your just chaining at a spot for 5 hours