I see myself becoming very rapidly dissapointed if I continue to read Dragonlance books written by other authors about characters that I don't care about, so I may as well broaden my horizons a bit.

Being a female, I have rather particular requirments that most males probably don't share.

I would like a fantasy novel/series that contains:
Characters with realistic faults
Romance
At least a little bit of sex, but preferrably more than a little bit

Your recommendations are appreciated.