Or are you saying lions are evil for eating antelope?
Really aren't good or bad, right or wrong, righteous or evil all just opinions? For example some people say that rabbits are evil and others say they're cute. It's all a matter of someones humble (or not so humble) opinion at the end of the day. Does anyone ever think of the thoughts of the losers of a war in the aftermath? no it's all about the glorious victory by the winners.
If we make a choice and can stand by that choice then there is not a problem with that it's really only if you cant stand by your choices in life you have a problem. Who cares what other people think or say about something if you are happy and can live with it?

Oh and Snowman...

I know I can achieve slightly more in a sparring match or a fight than what I currently achieve and as far as I can tell I'm making as much of my advantages as possible I incorporate movement learnt in the 10 years or more of ice skating I did to enhance my evasiveness (essentially following the old idea that combat of any sort is a "dance of death" and taking it literally) I also tend to fight in a defensive stance and crouch slightly to bring my point of gravity to a lower area making it harder to throw me but being 9st with "stringy" muscles of a dancer or runner I just lack in the physical strength department to resist for long but I'm faster than all of them I only have to worry if they can catch me first (easier said than done)