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    I don't like hints too much, because sometimes you can never really tell what's a hint and what isn't. Some things you think might be hints could be totally the opposite of what you thought. Some people might flatter you, but then that doesn't mean they like you.

    I think it's worth taking the risk of telling this person. If you keep it inside, you'll keep wondering "what if?" instead of "why not?". Rejection is a part of life and if you get rejected, yeah that sucks but there are other fish in the sea as <i>they</i> say.

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    1. Cool a public poll! I think it's our first one, at least the first one I've seen.

    2. Our backgrounds do not contrast enough for this new quote tag to be effective.

    3. It's best to tell the person that you like them, unless they are already involved with someone, then just let things run their course.

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    "3. It's best to tell the person that you like them, unless they are already involved with someone, then just let things run their course."

    I never thought I'd be seconding James Caan....

    Honesty, is the best way to go, it will give you the most direct answer as well as avoid many possible miscommunications. If the person you have feelings for has a steady already, perhaps you should make like an aforementioned cow and make your way to greener fields. Otherwise, the other option is to wait and see. However, don't tell the person you have feelings for them in hopes of ending their current relationship. That's never a good idea.

    Take care all.

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    Quote Originally Posted by The Captain
    However, don't tell the person you have feelings for them in hopes of ending their current relationship. That's never a good idea.
    Darn!
    You ruin my plans Captain guy.

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    well if I break it to them (tell the truth to a friend) I try my best not to hurt there fellings.
    I tell lies to protect my friends and myself
    if you keep telling the truth (and keep snitching) you grass
    if you keep telling lies (you start rumours)

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    Dude, just find out what's so great about the girl and be better at it than she is.

    Bam!

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    Tell her if he is nice or shut up 4ever if he is not!

    I told to all the guys I liked them and they joke me only Michael didn't so........

    Good Luck!

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    Tell them... I mean especially if you have reason to believe they like you. Hehe. Even though it's harder done than said.

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    tell them otherwise when it all comes out (which inevitably it will) they get kinda freaked by the idea of you longing for them from afar when being close to them. it destroys the trust in friendships cause they believe that you've lied to them for years or however long and that you could lie about other things too. Believe me I speak from experience here and I only bottled it cause I was scared about what would happen to our friendship and when it came out it came out in a physical way that has resulted in more trouble than it was ever worth and I wish to god I could take back 3 / 4 months of my life and do it differently.

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