Often, the case in discussions like one this is that those whose arguments are ripped to shreds come to reconsider their viewpoints. Perhaps the time is now for such a reconsideration?

Just pointing it out.

I'm somewhat religious, actually, although I hardly identify myself with the vast majority of people who call themselves "Christians," and I have no difficulty reconciling agreement with such concepts as gay marriage with the fact that I myself would have no desire to participate in them personally.