I won't raise anyone who tells me it's my duty. I don't mind helping people who are human about it, just don't try to apply force.

Likewise, I don't like the people who are overly nazi about how to play a whm. I was in a party in Qufim a couple of days ago...a nearby party got aggroed and their whm died. I started healing the survivors, and other guys in my party said not to cure them because they wouldn't call for help (as in ctrl+g--They were going /say help plenty)

I don't think forfeiting experience should be a requirement for getting help just because someone wants to be a prick. I left the party that tried to prevent me from lending aid when it was called for.