
 Originally Posted by 
Kilika
					
				 
				Life is unfair to everyone Chris....We have all had our best of times and our worst of times.  The only part of advice that I can give you is to stop, breathe and relax.  Sounds like your life feels like it's in a mess....well, "The greatest part about having a mess, is that you can always clean it up!"  Meaning that no matter how bad things get, there is always something there to get you back on track.