Quote Originally Posted by Mikztsu
From my LJ


Just wondering.

It seems like in my life, or todays society it's so hard to get to know new people; everyone's busy with everything. For that I mean, if I possibly wanna find a counterpart one day. I mean, where to get to know these girls? Not surely at University, since everyone I know there -- im not interested at all. The only places I can think of, are nightclubs. Wow, sluts and lots of them. Not all of course. But I don't like being around drunken people when I, myself, am not drunk. And I'm not that keen into drinking myself anymore.

So how to really meet people? Should I just go to talk to random girls at city I don't even know? No thanks. This is a dilemma for me, how to find a nice girl I could get attracted to.

Yes, I know many are just gonna say "it will just happen", but I'm just not sure.
That's a good point. I'm a church goer, and I met my wife there. It was pretty easy. We have the same basic beliefs and standards, similar family backgrounds and it wasn't too hard to agree on what we wanted family wise etc.. etc.. We were engaged after 3 months and married 5 months after that. It's been sunshine and lollipops ever since. Well just kidding, marriage is still work, but it's awesome.

I distinctly remember wondering how I would have met someone in any other situation. No wonder everyone else in the world dates for like years before they finally get married. If one meets people in a bar, what are the chances that they will match up personality wise, let alone in the fundamentals that are most important to him/her.

I simpathize with you.