wow Slade they do look kinda the same...but any way i also disagree with the R=U theory for most of the reasons stated here allready.

The point about grievr i spose, as a few people have said, is that Ulty use him against Squall and co becuse griever is a representation of Squall and his power (gunblade use, lionheat etc) so she's trying to use his power against him.

but yea all in all R=U=pants just my opinion