I feel the same way, and I've felt that way since I was your age, so here's the best tip I can give: the best way to handle it is to deal, and hope things get better. It isn't worth obsessing over because it'll hurt you in the end. And if you can think of a way to improve things, work on it. Besides, after ten years of watching my friends have relationships, I can safely tell you that any girlfriend you get now is going to be long gone by the time you're 14.