Right, because grand, sweeping generalizations are always right.Originally Posted by kikimm
Right, because grand, sweeping generalizations are always right.
I feel for you
Hey meet the inventor of "the third wheel"!
No-one wants to hang around with some video game character named Razael: The Angel Slayer.
However, sometimes the greatest thinking is done in solitude, Rikkie Dorant (Yes thats his real name, I think) from Damn Karma wrote the song "Insolent Cur" after his girlfriend left him and his grandmother died.
and "Insolent Cur" is a great song.
So fear not, you my be alone but in truth you are never really alone.
"Even a Lone-Wolf does not stay Lone forever"
Love Razael
go play Final Fantasy XI. That solves all problems! *faints from exhaustion*
Thank you for telling me that so that I can proceed to murder any of the boys who so much as looks at you.I don't think boys are icky and I'm twelve. Minouwagaincity is actually one of my best friends at school. Though, I think its because of my love of games.
chaos: Believe it or not, nowadays girls, over here anyways, are more interested in those "badass" and "mean" people. Shove someone in a garbage can and you'll be sure to get some answers
Rubedo: But seriously, it might happen eventually. I knew that at your age, I liked girls, but never thought of relationships yet. I still thought I was too young... ah well... when you grow up, you'll meet more people. Not having a relationship with anyone ain't the end of the world.
chaos:... Or you could get a haircut or something
Be yourself....you'll find someone....
i believe patience is the key!!
[Life is Eternity in a nutshell]
I think you're in way too much of a hurry, but I suppose most of us are/were/will be at that age. Here's my two cents.
Things will happen eventually, I know from experience. I didnt get my first kiss till I was almost 16. I spent most of my teenage years thinking I was hideous and hating myself and desperately wanting to have a boyfriend. Now I'm 21, I like the way I look, and I have a boyfriend, one I may marry someday. The point is, it'll all happen in time. Not to mention that the man I'm dating had a thing for me in jr high (and I for him) but both of us were too shy to say anything. You may be the object of someone's affections and may not know it.
I'm incessantly misanthropic yet I'm unnaturally popular when I want to be.
So can you.
In the school I'm going to right now, I thought I only made one friend. But when we broke up for Eid holidays so many people came wished me a happy eid/ hugged that I was stunned.
Just continue being a nice person and I'm sure you'll make plenty of friends.
:whaaa: I've adopted this smiley
I agree with Lindsey, the less you think about wanting to be with someone, and get on with other things, the more likely you'll find someone in the end. It just happens when it happens, and it'll creep up and surprise you when you're least expecting it. No matter who you are. And you'll be more attractive as a confident person who is happy on their own, than as someone who needs to be with someone else.
Arouna looks at me a lot but you haven't killed him.
Just don't get into relationships because you're physically attracted to the person. Get to know people and become friends before jumping at them, and don't expect someone to just say "OMG I WANT YOU 2 B MI SOLMAYTEE!" You have to be somewhat outgoing as well, if you want to be in a relationship that bad.
Personally though, I don't think you find relationships...I think they find you, or they have with me anyway (the few times they have).
In my whole life, 17 years of it, I've only ever seen one relationship between two 'young' people, which hasn't broken up and left both parties feeling stupid. My advice is just wait and just be friends with women untill your penis gets the better of you. In the mean time; theres always masterbation.
No matter how bleak your social life appears to be, eventually, someone breaks through and really gets to you. We can try to put up a protective front of not being interested or finding reasons for not having a boyfriend/girlfriend so that we can justify being alone but in reality, there is no one way to have a relationship, they just happen.
The longer you believe you'll be alone, the harder you'll eventually fall for someone when they come into your life if you continue to dispair. More than anything else, the three most important things to keep in mind are:
1. Always be yourself. Don't conform to someone else's liking just to have a relationship as those are doomed from the very beginning. Love that lasts occurs when both parties fall in love based on who they really truly are, not who they appear to be, or pretend to be. When you find someone who you are completely comfortable around, that's a sign that perhaps there is something more there.
2. Don't be in any hurry. As many others have said, relationships, no matter the age can come and go at any time. People who stress out over not being in a relationship usually make themselves so miserable that they miss out on chances to find a real, solid relationship. Instead, take everything in stride for now, find out who you are, and what you would like to be, then see if there are people out there who share your interests and get involved. The more active and social you are, the broader range and variety of people you'll meet.
3. Finally, don't burn any bridges or write someone off as being "out of your league" or as "not being your type" just based upon physical features. One of the most amazing things I've seen in many long-term, lasting relationships is that both people thought the other was either not their type or too good for them when they first saw each other, yet when they really got to know each other, all of these outer obstacles disappeared. I know it's very hard not to judge someone based upon appearance, but really get to know someone before you really decide whether or not they are for you. Perhaps not everyone is a supermodel on the outside, but really, the outside doesn't last forever. It's what's inside that does and really, what counts in love.
Take care all.
"Everything has a purpose. It's your life's mission to find yours."
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