Condemned To Solitude
For those of you who have visited my Xanga site (I'm NewBlackMage there) may already know what this is/ what it is. Well, I believe I'm cursed to be alone, so this is meh title. I'm just not appealing to the opposite sex. I'm always "just a friend" or the "third wheel"... Does anyone have this problem? Does anyone have some tips? Post them here!
Last edited by Fate Fatale; 11-15-2004 at 10:59 PM.
"Everything has a purpose. It's your life's mission to find yours."
Yes, but that's because I hate too much to mate.
-_-That is totally different...
"Everything has a purpose. It's your life's mission to find yours."
It's probably because people are impossibly shallow and not worth committing to anyways. You're probably better off alone
ok.... O_o... the problem is, I want a relationship..
"Everything has a purpose. It's your life's mission to find yours."
Or you think you do...such things are often nowhere near as good as they seem--in fact, they often cause more grief than they're worth. Personally, I'd rather eat a mouthful of angry bees than be involved in a relationship.
Look on the bright side: There's always masturbation or buying cheap dollar-store glasswares and beating the crap out of them with a hammer
I think relationships in high school are good mainly as a way of helping develop your social skills.
If you really want to be in a relationship, you have to be the aggressor. If both parties are too afraid to talk to each other about it, you'll never get anywhere hoping for them to come up to you. Even at the cost of pride, you need to go for it, because everyone dies eventually and you can't go around moping until then.
Get over it, get over wanting to be with someone and get on with your life, you're not cursed to be alone and you'll find someone eventually.
Unless you're like Bleys, in which case I'll provide the mouthful of angry bees.
Or you can follow these tried and tested solutions :
1) Be so angry/hateful/standoffish that the opposite sex will be so aroused by your anger/hatred they'll want to jump on you immediately
2) Be shy and wimpy and never talk to anyone, someone is BOUND to feel sorry for you eventually and maintain a relationship with you out of pure guilt
3) Purchase a spouse from an online dating site, I suggest http://www.ihavemoremoneythansense.com
It hasn't worked yet. /sarcasm2) Be shy and wimpy and never talk to anyone, someone is BOUND to feel sorry for you eventually and maintain a relationship with you out of pure guilt
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Being hateful doesn't attract people, I should know
Er... you're what? Twelve? You should still think girls are icky.
2) Be shy and wimpy and never talk to anyone, someone is BOUND to feel sorry for you eventually and maintain a relationship with you out of pure guiltHAHA!It hasn't worked yet. /sarcasm
Just face it, life will hopefully get better soon.
I don't think boys are icky and I'm twelve. Minouwagaincity is actually one of my best friends at school. Though, I think its because of my love of games.Originally Posted by Behold The Void
I feel the same way, and I've felt that way since I was your age, so here's the best tip I can give: the best way to handle it is to deal, and hope things get better. It isn't worth obsessing over because it'll hurt you in the end. And if you can think of a way to improve things, work on it. Besides, after ten years of watching my friends have relationships, I can safely tell you that any girlfriend you get now is going to be long gone by the time you're 14.
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SA: Boys are a lot less mature when it comes to these things. =/
I agree; you are a little young to be making that kind of statement. I would start worrying when you're in your mid-twenties. It's too early to tell, at this point. Oh, and don't change. stay the way you are---someone's bound to be attracted to you. If you're fake, it's just going to land you in more trouble.
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