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    Default An interseting thought about relationships!

    Do you think there is a person for everybody? Like, for every person in the world they have an ideal partner suited to them?
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    I don't think there is a person for everyone, and I believe there are several people for one person. It depends on the person.

    Too many people rely on the idea that there's someone who'll just "fit" them or "complete" them. Its not that easy. If you want a relationship to work, you have to make it work, and its not an easy job.

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    As there's six billion people in the world, I guess there's an extremely good possibility that there is somebody perfectly suited to someone else, although it isn't necessarily the case. In other words: Jebus x Bert.

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    I agree to an extent with Shlup, but I am also a believer in true love. However, in this day and age, it's so very difficult to really know or find any type of true love, so that deep down, I think you CAN find love with anyone if you are committed to them, are honest, can find common ground, and as was said, both make an honest effort.

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    Yeah, everyone has a soul mate out there. Some people just refuse to accept it.


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    I agree with you both; I'm just saying that too many people rely on finding their soul mate and think when they find them they'll live happily ever after.

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    I feel as if there's one person out there who matches perfectly with one's self.

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    I believe that there are a few people 'suited' for you, but that there's only one 'perfect' person for you. An dit's interesting because It could be your best friend that your 'soul mate' and you won't know it. Or it could be the guy/girl walking up the block, one of the people in the market or someone on this forum or someone who aciidentally bumps you and I could go on and on with this and I know everyone got the point that I was trying to make. Sorry about this
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    I think some people are ment to be alone, Im sure as hell there's nobody for me.

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    I believe that all humans have an inner, emotional equality, if that makes any sense. Because of this, I feel that any one person can love another person. It's just hard to see this because the most obvious things about a person are their external traits, and our external traits are not equal with one another (i.e. beauty, sense of humor, or intelligence) In other words, anybody can fall in love with anybody, because who we are is based on what we feel, and we all feel the same things. I hope all of this makes sense...

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    I think some people are ment to be alone, Im sure as hell there's nobody for me.
    You don't know that for sure.

    I believe that all humans have an inner, emotional equality, if that makes any sense. Because of this, I feel that any one person can love another person. It's just hard to see this because the most obvious things about a person are their external traits, and our external traits are not equal with one another (i.e. beauty, sense of humor, or intelligence) In other words, anybody can fall in love with anybody, because who we are is based on what we feel, and we all feel the same things. I hope all of this makes sense...
    It get it. It makes perfect sense
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    you don't have a soulmate just like that

    you find a compatible person and then you make them into your soulmate
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    i think that there is someone out there for everyone, but both those people have to accept them being the right person for each other.

    im pretty sure some already said that but oh well
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    Hmm...I really want to be cynical here, but I just don't know. There isn't really a way to prove right or wrong though; even if we all do have soulmates, there''s probably a good chance we won't meet them. They could live halfway across the world, in a place we'll never visit...but then again, if it's true love....gah, this is too confusing. I don't know. But I do think we'll all know, if we ever find that person.


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    Quote Originally Posted by Robot
    I don't think there is a person for everyone, and I believe there are several people for one person. It depends on the person.

    Too many people rely on the idea that there's someone who'll just "fit" them or "complete" them. Its not that easy. If you want a relationship to work, you have to make it work, and its not an easy job.

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