For what it's worth, I remember the newbie days of everyone who has posted in this thread.
Back in my more or less Newbie days I posted somethig in the Xenogears forum (yes, there used to be one) that was close to "I'd sure hate for my hibiscus to get a "something". It was a quote from the girl that said it about a flower in the Xenogears game and Kishi closed it. I PM'd him to ask why and he yelled at me I too, used to post like a newbie!