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    If you guys do/or-will have a significant other, and when you die...do you want the other to find someone else or remain faithful? Yes, there is that whole "death till you part" or whatever, but if I die, I'd prefer she find someone else. I would never want anyone to be alone for so long just for me, even if I die at 80 and she has just a few years left on her lifetime.

    My father died 5 years ago and my mother refuses to find someone else, even though I wouldn't mind if she did. I think my dad would have been okay with it. I can't imagine sleeping in a king size bed all by yourself for so long. I mean my mother is 39 years old...she has a VERY LONG life ahead of her. But I never bring up the subject anyways.

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    Personally, I wouldn't care. If my significant other wants to find a new partner after my death, that'll be fine. If she doesn't, that's fine too.

    My mom hasn't found anyone new, and she's been pretty faithful. I don't know if she will find anyone, but I guess in the future, she might.

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    I'd want her to marry David Hasselhoff, but not anybody else than that.


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    I would prefer her to find someone else. Her hapiness is more important than any posthumonous jealousy I may have.
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    prefer him to find someone else but to never forget me.
    but you never forget the people you love.

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    If she would want to, then I would have no problem with that.

    If the situation were the other way around, I don't think I could find someone else. It would never really feel right to me.
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    Matt (boyfriend) says he wants to die before me. If it were me and I fell in love with someone else, I would certainly persue it. It's not like I erase the love and consequential relationship I had with him. I pretty much expect he would do the same.

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    I dont think my dad has tried to find anyone else. I think he's still hurt over the loss of my mom (5 year anniversary of her death is on January 26, by the way.)
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    my best friends dad died 15 years ago and her mum has just got engaged. i'm very happy for her!! i guess it take a different amount of time for each person. i wouldn't want to be unhappy so i would try and find someone else IF my partner died.

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    This is the most depressing thread...

    I would prefer him to be happy.


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    I'd rather him be happy with some hot lady who isn't me (because I'm dead) than unhappy and alone. Or something.
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    I'll be dead so it won't matter. But at least tell me you wouldn't, it will make me feel better now.

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    Its hard to predict whether I'd even want to find someone else after my love died. If I died... eh. I guess it would depend on how young. We plan on dying in our sleep together anyway!

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    Well then, I'll be one of the first to say, ''Most certainly not."
    Myles and I have already discussed this possiblity and have both agreed to never have another 'love' in our lives.
    Even if I were told I could find another man, I wouldn't. I tell Myles that he's the only one for me and I mean that. In life OR death.

    That was a depressing talk. There was much crying just by talking about the other dying.
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    I'll be dead, what do I care?

    Besides, I like to tell him I plan to die before him, so yeah. I think he's too ackward to ever have anyone else, though.

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