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    Quote Originally Posted by Squall04
    That is because you are looking at it from a girl's point of view of having to criticize and evaluate everyone and everything. I do not look at some one and immediately think whether or not he is hot. If a girl asks me to, I try to see a guy from a girl's perspective, but I don't usually do so otherwise.
    I don't criticize.

    When I see a girl with beautiful eyes, I think "hey that girl has beautiful eyes." And I think that's perfectly normal.

    I can look at an elderly woman in the park and think, "my god, she's gorgeous" because I don't equate appreciating someone's beauty with wanting to "hook up."

    I think human beings in general are beautiful. Scars, lumps, bumps and all. So I appreciate the beauty in both men and women, old and young.

    I'm betting that once you guys have sons, you'll notice how strong his jawline is and how lovely his eyes are. My Dad randomly tells my brother that he's beautiful. So yeah, I do think it's a bit odd that some guys can't appreciate the beauty in other guys.

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    I thik several softcore porn actors are not. I'm withholding their names as you wouldn't know them.

    I want one's bod. (Not like that. As in, I want to look like him.)

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    Quote Originally Posted by Squall04
    Oh I really don't see why people link being comfortable with your sexuality to doing homosexual stuff like talk about whether or not other men are hot.
    Attractive, not hot. And it's not so much if a straight guy does this activity, it's if he would do this activity. It's more willingness, like if a guy is not even remotely willing to say that another guy is attractive or not. I mean, no one is asking if you want to have wildy monkey sex with Brad Pitt, they are merely asking what you think of his looks. I mean, Brad Pitt has good hair, a great smile, a nice jawline, nice eyes, and a swimmer's body, he's an attractive guy. For a male to note that about another male does not imply anything. And if you can't even make a comment on the subject, well.....

    I comment on guys' looks all the time. Oh wait.....
    In fairness to the theory of the subject, I do comment on how girls look as well. Not as often though because it's not what I usually look at, but I would if the comment were appropriate.

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    I completely agree with Miriel.

    If I understood her correctly, that is. My english is a bit of an "instinct" thing. It feels like I understand, but sometimes, I get everything all upside-down and just oh-so-wrong.

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    Quote Originally Posted by ShlupQuack
    I don't really have many guy friends who wont admit another guy is attractive. They wont say "He has a tight ass" like I'll say "She has great tits" but, eh, doesn't really bother me.
    But wouldn't you laugh if they did? xD
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