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    I had this discussion with classmates the other day and it was pretty interesting. From a guy's point of view, they want an ideal girl that's about 2" shorter than them...from a girl's point of view, they want a guy about 5" taller than them...which is not surprising considering most couples at my university vary by about 4-6" in height, so I guess the girls win out.

    I never found height to be a requirement or preference, just as long as she's not taller than me or too too too short, I never cared. My only gf was 5'6". I also never believed height was attractive either. Maybe girls view it more, but guys don't really care AFAIK. I mean say Brad Pitt was 5'6", if you showed his photo to girls they'd drool. Say you take a good looking guy(but not as good looking as Brad Pitt) and he was 6'. If they saw the good-looking guy, they'd prefer Pitt. In person, they'd probably take the taller good-looking guy over Pitt...just because he's taller.

    There aren't many couples where the female is taller than the guy, but I haven't been able to find a definitive answer as to why height matters so much more to women than men. For guys, they just look for a cute body and face and hope to be her mate. Women are probably a bit more selective even if they find a cute guy with a good body.

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    From the relationships I've had so far, none of the girls have been taller than about 5'3. I don't think this is coincidence either, I just seem to have an larger affinity for smaller than average people.
    I certainly wouldn't say height mattered to a relationship, but I think some people probably have subconscious preferences when it comes to this.
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    Height doesn't matter to me.
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    Length doesn't matter, it's what you do with it!
    Oh, wait. We're talking about height here? Yeah, I knew that. :riiight:

    Seriously though, I remember an ex-girlfriend of mine. She must have been about 6ft, so, as you can see, she was a very tall for her gender. I remember we went to a school dance together, and we got a lot of strange looks because of it, me being about 5'6" or 7" and all. It may have looked a little strange to people, but it didn't bother me or her in the slightest.

    So, my answer to the question is nope. Height does not matter to me at all!

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    I like small girls. 5'3" (160 cm) is about the limit.

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    i wouldn't really want to date a guy shorter then me....i like guys to be taller then me, above 6 foot!

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    I really do expect most of the females will have a "wouldn't like to date if shorter than me" thingy goin' on.

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    I would really prefer a guy to be taller than me, but as I'm 5 feet tall, that really is easy. I'd say about 5'6" and up is ideal for me, but I'd I think there are MANY things more important than height in a relationships.


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    While height isn't something I think about, I'd feel weird if the girl was taller than me. It's rare that a girl is taller than me, though.

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    I can only tolerate short, thin girls.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Rye
    I would really prefer a guy to be taller than me, but as I'm 5 feet tall, that really is easy. I'd say about 5'6" and up is ideal for me, but I'd I think there are MANY things more important than height in a relationships.
    hey that's me. ^^ ~5'10" is a good height, 5'6" is a bit short though. And yeah, there are more important things, like <s>length</s> personality.


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    It's not really important but I'd rather a guy was a bit taller than me at least. My mum is way taller than my dad though. xD
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    My girlfriend is taller than me. We joke about it.

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    Meh I don't care about height in the least, the guys I've liked are all differant sizes.
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