yeah, you-yevon, it was like a corny response and continuation to the previous, but whatever. Or was it Yu-Yevon? Yu,You, it's said the same, so NO I don't like you.Originally Posted by Rye
yeah, you-yevon, it was like a corny response and continuation to the previous, but whatever. Or was it Yu-Yevon? Yu,You, it's said the same, so NO I don't like you.
LWL please stop being childish. you too rye. neither of you are making it better.
LWL don't pm people asking them to be friends as much. if they don't reply or say that they decline your offer then don't worry. ignore it
rye and others. if someone annoys you by pming you all the time tell a mod. they can sort it out without any trouble.
ok?
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As others have said we're not trying to beat you in anything good sir, as that's far from the case.
I'm trying my best to see the entire picture here, so if there is something I'm missing feel free to clue me in. From what I've gathered it seems that there was a great misunderstanding by just about everyone involved. Whether it was your intent or not, they took what you were asking them in a different way then you wanted it do. These things happen, but if you try to clear it up, as in, explain what were you intending to do with the PM's, I think this situation can be put to rest and everyone can be the better for it.
Take care all.
Hey, sorry man, but the girls are in the right, here. You bothered them... you should probably get your definition of "friend" synchronized. Girls, correct me if I'm wrong, but the better approach would go like this:
"Hello, I'm ..... from EoFF (assuming IM), how are you?" then some small talk about posts and whatnot, share some interests... wait a while before asking for them to be new friends.
Seriously, you came across as "stalker" to more than one woman. You should consider that before getting mad at THEM. Which, FYI, is a solid part of the stalker profile. Then you try to get people to side with you... also stalker profile. My gut agrees with these girls. If I was to make a professional opinion (and had the influence that comes with that), I'd ask for more information.
I can tell you this, in most places, you have already crossed the legal lines for harassment/stalking type charges. However, I'm a psychologist, not a lawyer, and I can't make a completely certain call on that.
Boris, please stop telling people what to do. By calling people childish, you yourself are not helping the situation as they think you're trying to control them. It's better to be understanding.
Someone get BoB, I think we need a Kit Kat break so that this doesn't spin out of control further.
Take care all.
sorry. i know what i said was silly. i just don't want anyone to get banned for stuff they say.Boris, please stop telling people what to do. By calling people childish, you yourself are not helping the situation as they think you're trying to control them. It's better to be understanding.
sorry for calling you childish LWL and rye.
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Whatever people, I don't want any trouble, or enemys.But it seems like too much to ask, you all seem focused on what you think I am doing and what I should be doing, than what I really am doing.You all seem oh so confident that your right, and i'm the bad guy. Let me put it this way,never expect to hear from me again. I'll still be on to talk to the few people who PM me, but other than that, have a nice life. The "stalker" as you put it, has left the forum!!!!
I was trying to be friendly and start a conversation via PM, don't get me wrong, not like some hot and heavy friendship. that takes a while.I just wanted to start with simple hellos............... Once again, it's way too much to ask.
actually, no it's not. You just came off the wrong way to people. I still don't think that you should have started the thread. You kind of brought this on yourself by doing so.
*You know it's over, growing colder, I need something, leads me next to nothing...*
*All we ever wanted, I need something, leads me next to nothing...*
There is no reason to leave the forums over this man. I think you should stay.
And once again LWL, you have COMPLETELY missed our point that you went about this in the wrong way. You say we're convinced we're right? You seem to be the one who is convinced of his own rightness. You havent listened to a single thing anyone has said here. You just keep going on about how we're victimizing you .etc. Which is simply not true.
If you have to leave the forums then ok. But you're just running away, and its not *our* fault.
And yes, now I've said everything I want to say.
LWL, no-one wants you to leave the forum, nobody at all. It's just that if you want to make friends, perhaps it is better to do it another way? Or alternatively, if you do choose to PM people, you can't expect them to be friendly as they did not ask for the PM. If they are unfriendly, then it's their loss, right?
I can understand that you are upset about some of the responses in this thread, but how do you think people who you have PMed felt when they read that you had posted about them? If someone made a thread about you, wouldn't you be angry?
Like I said, no-one wants you to leave EoFF (that I know of) and it would be a shame if you did, but ultimately it's down to you.
what nik *hope I can call you that* said. I think you should still stick around, even though some people may have gotten the wrong impression of you.
*You know it's over, growing colder, I need something, leads me next to nothing...*
*All we ever wanted, I need something, leads me next to nothing...*
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doesnt bother me
LET THE HAMMER FALL
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