I didn't say you were, specifically. If you don't recall anyone else doing it, though, then all that pot you must be smoking has given you the mind of a goldfish.
I don't do much pot smoking, actually.

I personally do not feel that anyone is condemning you at all. I think people are just a little worked up over this (Maybe a little too worked up) and the things they are saying reflect the heat of the moment, not what they really think and feel.