"(Just wait 'till The Captain posts. His genius is unrivaled.)"

Gvie yourself more credit my friend. Your advice is perfect.

You'd be surprised how many times someone reacts one way but when they take a moment to think about it, they realize what they initially decided was not what they really wanted at all. I agree with what has been said already, clear the air, if this is not what you want then make sure you make that known as fast as possible, which it seems you already did. Take the time to decide what it is you really feel and then go with it.

Just a few other items in passing:

You said that Misato and Cai Hua are dating and she asked you out despite this fact? To me, that doesn't seem like the right thing to do, and I might question whether she sincerely means to have a relationship with you if she showed little regard for the relationship she was currently in.

Don't judge yourself. A great many people don't believe they are homosexual or bisexual until suddenly one day it confronts them. So many people choose to repress or ignore this and it can only eat away at them. Make peace with yourself before engaging in any relationships as it will save you and the person you're with a lot of stress.

Hope it all works out.

Take care all.