However, if you look at it from a different standpoint. You raised the point of first impressions. If clothing aids in defining first impressions... then even if a poor person is poor and they spend it on nice clothing they will emit the senseb of wealth to others they first meet... Faking wealth... perhaps that can get you a better job? get you real wealth? or get you a rich husband? It demonstrates the wants of this person... so even if they may not have money... money is who they are. Money is what they emit.Originally Posted by The Captain
I'm a fashion tart.
I love shoes and Clothing. I'm not an accesorizor though... but I have to say. I like to dress in a trendable manner. I like my high heels...
But I vary muchly when it comes to dress wear. I can often be caught in a pair of torrid army pants and a wife beater...
Both these fashion statements emit a sense to others and each time I meet someone with different types of clothing new ideas are trigerred about who we are.
This is a broad statement however... as there are some people who are able to see beyond the clothing.
All in all. I like to be attractive... I like to feel beautiful, and i do spend a pretty penny on maintaining my appearance... but all in all it hasn't helped me at all find a guy that is right for me. In fact, I think the way I dress can terrify some of the guys, make them feel shy or not good enough... or maybe better than.
But should I change the way I look? Nahhhhh.