Does anybody feel like they're a disappointment?

**Social Moon Firesky** · 03-31-2005, 04:15 PM

Have you ever felt like you are a big embarrassment to your family, or that your parents secretly wish you'd never been born/turned out differently?

**Misfit** · 03-31-2005, 04:18 PM

Yeah! I don't know why, though!

**kikimm** · 03-31-2005, 04:19 PM

Nope. I don't get that "vibe" from them; never have, and I hope I never will. I hope you don't either.

**Social Moon Firesky** · 03-31-2005, 04:20 PM

I do sometimes. Like when I've done something stupid, which is quite often. I just hate the feeling that I have to impress them all the time.

**disapointedchild** · 03-31-2005, 04:23 PM

Ha you make me laugh.

(THEN CRY)

**Nod** · 03-31-2005, 04:24 PM

why waste your time obeying the opinions of others.
or as i prefer to say, 'smurf em'.

**kikimm** · 03-31-2005, 04:32 PM

Originally Posted by Social Moon Firesky

I do sometimes. Like when I've done something stupid, which is quite often. I just hate the feeling that I have to impress them all the time.

=( Even though I don't know you or your family, I'm positive that your parents are glad, and always will be glad that they had you. Maybe I'm using this the wrong way, but your friends know when you've done something stupid, right? They still love you after you've done it; usually parents' love is more unconditional than friends. But if that's not what you meant, then forget you ever read that.

I wouldn't worry about it, personally. But if it's really bothering you, I would definitley talk to them about it. I wouldn't want to live with that constantly on my mind.

**Citizen Bleys** · 03-31-2005, 04:35 PM

I'm usually the one being disappointed by others.

**Megami** · 03-31-2005, 04:35 PM

Originally Posted by kikimm

=( Even though I don't know you or your family, I'm positive that your parents are glad, and always will be glad that they had you. Maybe I'm using this the wrong way, but your friends know when you've done something stupid, right? They still love you after you've done it; usually parents' love is more unconditional than friends. But if that's not what you meant, then forget you ever read that.

I wouldn't worry about it, personally. But if it's really bothering you, I would definitley talk to them about it. I wouldn't want to live with that constantly on my mind.

*nods*

Your parents love you and everything they do is for your own good.

Believe me

**Social Moon Firesky** · 03-31-2005, 04:52 PM

Ya, I know. Although sometimes they yell at me when something isn't my fault, but everyone's parents do that at some point, right?

**boris no no** · 03-31-2005, 05:09 PM

parents are like that.
my parents wanted aboy, they were told that i was a boy as i have a slow heart beat.
but when i turned out to be a gorl i think they were disapointed.
how i see it though is that if they are silly enough to think that then its not worth being sad.
we've been having so many family problems recently....
its hard but we learn to get trhough things.

**Social Moon Firesky** · 03-31-2005, 05:11 PM

Well, it's good that you're strong enough to do that.

**theundeadhero** · 03-31-2005, 05:49 PM

I hate to sound Grandpa-ey, but these are normal. Its part of growing up. As you grow up you become more of an individual instead of "just like your parents". Sometimes you feel bad that you can't be exactly the way they want you to but theres nothing wrong with it. Your going to be an individual and they will accept it. Sometimes not right away, but it will happen.

**XxSephirothxX** · 03-31-2005, 05:55 PM

I'd say I get disappointed with myself, but don't feel like my family is disappointed in me...at least, not very often.

**m4tt** · 03-31-2005, 06:00 PM

Originally Posted by ShlupQuack

And, Matt, you know I love you, but, lets face it, Kishi is more of an asset to EoFF than you are.

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