Could 9, the only reply that immediately comes to mind is Are You Serious?

But to elaborate, let's take it from the top, shall we?
destroyed 2 countries with no results.
Which would be why the residents of those two countries can now do things like vote, eat, speak against their leader, walk around without a burkha/hijab/abayah and not be burned alive, etc.? If only all Arabic countries could be so thoroughly "destroyed." And I ain't joking.

killed thousands of people on false pretence in a war illegal what ever way you read the rules of war
First of all, the "false pretense" line--it's false. Absolutely, plainly, bald-faced false, and to say such a thing indicates that you either know nothing about this war or that you're lying through your teeth--I'll be nice, as the forums seem to require of me, and assume you spoke through ignorance rather than intent to libel. We had: a) first, the WMD--our intelligence was sure he had them, British intelligence was sure he had them, French intelligence thought he'd have a nuke by '05, Russian intelligence was sure he had them--in fact, every nation that had an intelligence network was certain he had them; the Clinton administration, for example, had no problem telling us about Sodom's WMD during the Impeachment Bombing of '98. b) Sodom's terrorist connections; not only with Al-Quaeda, but with several other terrorist organizations, among the least of them being Sodom's payments of 25 grand to homicide bombers in Israel, his plane-hijacking training facility in Salmon Pak, and numerous other camps. c) his treatment of his own people--the information on that is widely available, and if you refuse to see it that is no problem of mine. d) violation of 17 different UN resolutions. e) our own duty--we promised the Kurds back in '92 that we would get rid of this bastard, and when they took us at our word and instead we listened to the UN and left Sodom in charge, he took advantage of the time to suppress all opposition in an unspeakably brutal manner. We owed them, and it's about time we delivered. f) Firing on our planes--the ones enforcing the no-fly zone so Sodom couldn't gas his own people to death. Let me repeat this--the SOB was shooting at us. You think Bush jumped the gun? If it'd been me there'd have been troops on the way within the hour of his first rocket fired.

esponsible for the deaths of millions in africa,
This you'll have to explain some, because it looks like a crock to me.

has spect the majority of it's existence "at war" (hasn't actually declared it in most of them),
How DARE we defend ourselves! I take it back--we are evil! It must be because of the capitalism.

guilty of allowing torture in iraq, afghanistan, cuba
Ahh, yes--because making a few terrorists stay awake and draping the Israeli flag over them to make them help us stop their compatriots from murdering as many men, women, and children as they can is simply a crime of epic proportions.

and at home,
This, on the other hand, I'm going to have to plain and simply call BS.

at when it gets too tought ships it's prisoners to countries where they can boil them alive.
I'm not sure whether my lack of knowledge here is regarding news sources or biology--but either way, I have no idea where you pulled this from.

uses sweatshops for it's industry
Have you wondered why those "sweatshops" never have trouble finding workers? An American company goes overseas and doubles the area's standard of living, and you call this a crime?

paid no money to vietnam for destroing it's forests,
You mean we didn't pay a communist regime for invading our allies? Oh, the SHAME!

called darfur genocide yet did nothing
Wait a minute--you called us criminals because we went to war to stop unspeakable acts from going on in Iraq... yet we're criminals because we're not going to war to stop unspeakable acts from going on in Sudan? But wait, wait! We ARE doing something! And maybe, if the UN doesn't care like it didn't about Iraq, we'll have to take care of it ourselves. And when we do that, you can call us genocidal criminals again. Or, apparently, if we don't, you can call us genocidal criminals again. I'm starting to notice a pattern here.....

wacthes as sea levels,
I assume you mean "watches as sea levels rise". We also watch as they lower in some places. Refusing to cripple our country on the basis of anti-American junk-science hysteria is not a black mark on our country; to the contrary, in fact.

aids spreads in africa and millions die a year
Fifteen Billion ain't enough? We are doing something about AIDS in Africa--like your Darfur claim, this accusation is false.

at what point am i to belive has any redeeming qualites never mind are the good guys?
That would probably be the point where you quit watching Al-Jazeera and look at what's actually going on in the world around you.

and still noone has explained what my choice of watching explains exactly.
Look at the paragraph directly above that quote. If you don't get it; don't worry. The rest of us do.

the people who hate you hate you because you support a country guilty of occupation, invade countries which have shown no aggression towards you and is corrupt to the very core in so many ways it's too long to list. the attrocities above covers just a few.
Considering that the accusations you've made are all false so far, it stands to reason there's a different cause.

The people who hate us hate us because we aren't muslim and we won't let them kill Jews. The above-mentioned people have been very clear on that in their own statements.

T-Man, then perhaps you can explain why 90+% of the violence in the world just happens to be centered on islam?