I meant you shouldn't hold back on what you need.

And girly smack, really? i have some experience with martial arts so, I'd be ok, until I met something like, oh...I don't know a Behemoth...
(does a side kick to a Behemoth, has no effect other than pissing it off, Behemoth quickly crushes young martial artist)...man, I don't want to envision that again...