Originally Posted by
mihalis
I couldn't agree with you more. Both Democrats and Republicans alike are guilty of labeling and stereotyping their political opponents. Furthermore, when we disagree with someone else's position on an issue, it is important to remember to attack their position rather than their person.
Consider this: Are you likely to listen to another person's argument if they begin by personally insulting you? On the other hand, would you be more likely to listen if they first acknowledge your position, and then explain the points on which they disagree?
Case in point: Debate will get us nowhere unless we look beyond labels such as "liberal" or "conservative"; "Democrat" or "Republican", and focus on the issue at hand. The moment you personally attack another person, you may as well throw the towel in, as you have lost all hope of convincing them to accept your position.
Persuasion is only effective if you are able to first understand the other person's viewpoint and why they hold their position. Compromise is also effective--if you are on the same page, and you are willing to concede part of your argument, they will probably be willing to do the same.
