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    Quote Originally Posted by Sasquatch
    I think saying "smurfing" anything is stupid.
    We have a swear filter here that automatically changes the "F-word" to "smurf." Just so you know.

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    Eight or ten year olds should not be having a sexual relationship ^^ It doesn't matter if they feel pleasure off of it or not. Moral values aside, they should be given the chance to make the decision of whether they want to have casual sex or want to actually save themselves for someone that they will love romantically, and at that age, they most likely don't know about this. Sex is such a big deal in society.


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    Wow. So you can't even say "smurf" without it being changed? What a crock.

    (EDIT: That ^ was a test. You were right. Weird.)

    I stand corrected. I guess my mentioning of how stupid saying "smurfing" anything something was looks pretty ignorant now, as it was. Ah, what the hell.

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    Beastiality wouldn't be the same. If a child is getting molested and doesn't try to get away, that's hardly consenting. An animal could never consent...I'm assuming that you were being sarcastic on that one....or I hope you were.

    A child could "consent" in a sense, but it's just like a child could sign a legally binding contract if legal...but do children understand all the details? Are the fit and ready to do such, ect? No. It's the same thing. Plus it's kind of hard to consent to sex when you don't know what it is.

    Did I ever say anything about prostitution? I think prostitution should be legal. I'm in complete support of prostitution being legal. It's rediculous that it's not to me. I have no clue why you randomly brought that up.

    The reason I said such though is because you were the one saying pedophilia and homosexuality were pretty much the same....and well...no...just no.
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    Quote Originally Posted by udsuna
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    Pedophelia is not a sexual orientation... if it were then ud chose male over female children, when in actuality u just like em young.. thats not an orientation, that is a fetish... i dont think u know what these words mean so go look em up,
    So, what's my orientation? I'm bisexual, by your logic, I can't exist. Just because pedophelia is an has nothing to do with gender, does not disqualify it from being an orientation. Oh, and a great many pedophiles do prefer male or female over the other. Can't tell you why it works differently from case to case. My guess is that one can have more than one orientation at a time, hence bisexuals/etc.

    I don't know why you can't understand that... que sera, sera.

    EDIT: Uh, Catboy, that's just sick... and actually, one cannot achieve climax until a certain point in puberty, which (to your credit) does usually occur before fertility, it has to do with how the brain works. The nerves just aren't connected right until that time. But EVEN IF said child (early teen) enjoys the activity, that doesn't mitigate the emotional damage. In fact, it might sometimes create worse issues than typical molestation. Hard to tell, it's often very hard to tell due to all kinds of mitigating details.
    I'm still a virgin but my friend since he was 11 has been screwing aorund with chicks ever since.

    Another thing is private parts are sensitive even before one can ejaculate.Children touch themselves all the time heck if you had or have children then they have done it and you never knew.

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    Quite frankly even if it is a fetish they might not have chosen to become that way. You dont go up to a porn site and go tentacle hentai is my thing and forever i will love people getting screwed by tentacles.

    So what if a child is consenting and likes it? What if the adult and child grow up and actually have a meaningful relationship? IT could happen you know? Would it be any different for you then to look upon it? Who are we to tell that they cant have a relationship? As parents? Maybe...but you can relate that to people seperating you from your friend...

    Now if you want to talk beastality that is just pure sex, zoophilla is the love someone feels about another species and i dont think its too far-fetched too. But i wont get into that.

    In any case for me, if its not "natural" to you doesnt mean its not natural at all, so i just accept that some people do that and as long as no one is hurt i dont care. Pedophilla in and of itself is not harmful, just those that force it upon children(and if children want it then would it still be forcing? I wouldnt think so).

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    Quote Originally Posted by DMKA
    An animal could never consent
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    A little explict but i think the point is made. We dont konw if other species can consent or not, they might or might not theres no concrete proof IMO that they are any less consenting or intellectual than us(although maybe on an entirely different level, not to be confused with higher or lower however). I think other speicies can have feelings, although some might have it differently than us necessarily. I feel we need to know we arent the only species upon this planet and that we arent necessarily the "king" of them all as well. But thats another thread.

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    Uh, children are damaged by seuxal relations so early... ALWAYS and REGARDLESS of the situations leading up to or past the events. At the very least, you get diseases like nymphomania (and it is a disease, please make very sure you know what your talking about before arguing against THAT) or drug abuse. And at worst, suicidal or homicidal behavior.

    Memory surpressions/brainwashing are the most common nature of problems. You heard me, "brainwashing"... children simply do not understand what's going on, they don't have the capacity, and that confusion/etc. alone is MORE than enough to scar someone for life.

    Simply put, it's not sane to believe a child could be exposed to this and not be harmed. Actually, any relationship between a younger teen and an adult is extremely damaging to the child (and they are still children). It's not healthy. Never has been healthy. Never will be healthy.

    And, as for animals... ewww... but, whatever. They're just animals... but ewww... then again, I've done things that would get the same reaction, I'm sure. Always consenting adult(s), but still weird.
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    Its a little too much to say always isnt it? I am sure more often than not its bad, but i wouldnt know if it ever did good for once..who knows? It COULD at the very least. I dont know about the disease though.

    Maybe it never will be healthy but i dont konw, most people do it for the sex itself, what if its not for the sex? Lets say it did work out fine...would it be viewed upon as anything different? I would assume no...because i feel the primary reason why we dont like this is because more often than not it happens to harm the child is all. Not necessarily pedophilla itself.

    Nah i know your views differ on mine on other species out there, but there are people out there regardless of what you think. I dont mind, i wish that they are happy and fine with their lives. It doesnt really bother me that much, as long as they are happy and no one is hurt, i wouldnt mind. I would not say that they cannot feel love as well, that is unfair. But that is of course me, you may feel differently however.

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    So we are going to kill like over 95% of the population becuase they are perverts and enjoy sex? >_> Sorry i just find the really dumb.

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    Like I was saying, beastiality isn't my buisiness. My concern is about people... and considering my area of specialty was child developement, them especially. There is no reasonable way to expect ANY child to be so inclined. Hence, always, rape. And even if it was concensual (highly unlikely), the emotional connection would be impossibly mismatched.

    Now, if someone had a strange glandular thing and never left a child-like biological state, that's different. The time to mature and develop mentally and emotionally enough to handle an adult relationship is, by definition, necessary. People don't maturate to even starting that state until in their mid teens, and usually don't finish it until they're in their mid 20's... which is why relationships fail more often in the younger group. One must come to understand oneself first... and it's not fair or right to expect that of a child.

    And, no, there is no reasonable way to expect a child not to come out of such a relationship with (undue) emotional damage. Probably ruining any chance of them ever having a healthy love life... but, that's just the usual chain of events, there are variations. The human mind/soul/whatever... in a lot of ways is as predictable as the human body. This is the equivilant of being tossed out of the 20th story of a building to land on the concrete below. It's not a matter of IF it will hurt, just how much.
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    Quote Originally Posted by udsuna
    Uh, children are damaged by seuxal relations so early... ALWAYS and REGARDLESS of the situations leading up to or past the events. At the very least, you get diseases like nymphomania (and it is a disease, please make very sure you know what your talking about before arguing against THAT) or drug abuse. And at worst, suicidal or homicidal behavior.

    Memory surpressions/brainwashing are the most common nature of problems. You heard me, "brainwashing"... children simply do not understand what's going on, they don't have the capacity, and that confusion/etc. alone is MORE than enough to scar someone for life.

    Simply put, it's not sane to believe a child could be exposed to this and not be harmed. Actually, any relationship between a younger teen and an adult is extremely damaging to the child (and they are still children). It's not healthy. Never has been healthy. Never will be healthy.

    And, as for animals... ewww... but, whatever. They're just animals... but ewww... then again, I've done things that would get the same reaction, I'm sure. Always consenting adult(s), but still weird.
    well no one is saying that.we said pediohillia is a fetish adult males have heck the ones who have the fetish is as harmless as taking some child's pic.and flipping his dolphin to it.Though that is sick as hell in my opinion.But another thing is someone in here said pedophillia is associated with homosexuallity.Thats not true since when has children had one gender?Another thing is uduna your right whenever the pedphillia guy actaully stops spanking it to pics of children they move on to the big leagues and rapes a child and that scars a child for life.

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    It's only wrong because it's Illegal I don't hate pedos JUST because they are like that. Let me explain if a peadophile was to rape/molest a child they should be arrested - not because of what they are but because of what they've done if the child/teen is fully agreed to it (And that person who said they wouldn't know - that's wrong) It's okay by me (Even if the pigs don't think so) I say if you love someone it doesn't matter who they are.

    What upsets me is that some (Not all) Pedos are probly realy decent people but just because they are pedophiles (How many spellings have I done now?) they are automatcally "evil" even if they're not the type of pedos that rape/molest. That is sad you got to admit wether you hate them or not the thing is the pedos them selves must be suffering too because they are pedos they can't help who they are.


    But no matter what happens I am a religous person and I know that God understands their pain and when they die they'll go to heavan like everyone else.

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