Pedophilia. Is it a problem, and is there a solution?

[udsuna]

Pedophelia is not a sexual orientation... if it were then ud chose male over female children, when in actuality u just like em young.. thats not an orientation, that is a fetish... i dont think u know what these words mean so go look em up,

So, what's my orientation? I'm bisexual, by your logic, I can't exist. Just because pedophelia is an has nothing to do with gender, does not disqualify it from being an orientation. Oh, and a great many pedophiles do prefer male or female over the other. Can't tell you why it works differently from case to case. My guess is that one can have more than one orientation at a time, hence bisexuals/etc.

I don't know why you can't understand that... que sera, sera.

EDIT: Uh, Catboy, that's just sick... and actually, one cannot achieve climax until a certain point in puberty, which (to your credit) does usually occur before fertility, it has to do with how the brain works. The nerves just aren't connected right until that time. But EVEN IF said child (early teen) enjoys the activity, that doesn't mitigate the emotional damage. In fact, it might sometimes create worse issues than typical molestation. Hard to tell, it's often very hard to tell due to all kinds of mitigating details.