I love my niece. She's almost three and a half years old. I'll always love her, and I love holding her and playing with her. That's a nurturing relationship. No romance. No intamacy. No sexual contact of any kind. No desire for it at all. That's not paedophilia, that's the "nurturing relationship" you mentioned. Parents have a "nurturing relationship" with their children, that doesn't mean they're paedophiles.

Kids aren't mature. They may think they are, but they're not. I'm sure most of us thought we were mature when we were young, but we weren't. Hell, I was very mature for my age when I was younger, but "very mature" for a 14-year-old doesn't come anywhere close to "mature" for an adult. Paedophiles know this, and they feed off of it--one of the reasons a child may think they're "mature" is that they may be able to carry on a relationship with an older partner. The older partner is using this thought of the child's "maturity", and the younger partner is happy because they look and feel more "mature".

As for your "Maybe if you ever get a fetish that isnt widely accepted or is considered taboo you should get shot too" comment, I agree. If I ever were to start molesting children, somebody should blow my damn head off. If I ever start having sex with animals, castrate me, quickly, before I breed with a human, or at least beat the hell out of me.