As i said, the only real problem we have of this is that, more often than not, it hurts the child in the process no matter what intentions the older person might have if they had sex with the kid. I would say that molestors and rapists DO fit into the fetish category where they rampantly hurt kids like that just to satisfy their desires. The pedophiles that however do not do such things(however rare there are unfortunetly) i would say fits into the orientation definition more if it was to go by that meaning.
Kinda like...Casual Sex and/or Rape vs Long Lasting relationship...although that might not be the best of analogies...sorry its like 4AM @_@.
