As for those who are devilish enough to disgrace those who sacrifice - shut up, really. I'd like to see you stand in-front of someone who has lost a loved one, and tell them it's alright they died, or perhaps that they deserved it.
You are bringing something up that can be found nowhere in this thread. Nobody has said anything about it being okay for someone to have died, or that they deserved it. I don't know where you get these dumb ideas from.

Also, I refuse to "shut up" just because you don't like what I'm saying.

to say hateful, pointless things about values you know nothing of.
Nobody is saying hateful things. We simply said soldiers arent heros by default. This, of course, pissed you off, because you are a soldier. Nobody is saying hateful things about soldiers. Sorry, but they aren't.
A fireman is a hero. A doctor is a hero. ANYONE who does their job\duty, and their job has a direct effect on people's lives (and the risk of losing them), is a hero in my eyes.
I disagree. A fireman is a fireman, and a doctor is a doctor. A fireman who goes beyond what is required of his job and puts something he values at risk to help another is a hero. Same with a doctor, same with a soldier.