Ugh... Vaprice is absolutely right. If they're making rude comments to you, just leave immediately. As a WHM you'll be in HIGH demand. WARs are a dime a dozen, but a free WHM in Valkurm is like finding a $50 in the middle of the road. If you disband you'll probably get an invite from another party within like 10 seconds.

I also play as a melee class, and I always try to show my appreciation to the mages. I do it for the mages

I will now write out ascii art depicting my respect for the mages.

(>o.0)>~~~~~~~~>>>(X.X)