It ruins it when they find out then tell you. They're suppsoed to keep it a scret to themselves! Tis the rule of having a crush....
Sometimes i get really annoyed when all these people with partners go around moaning saying "oh i wish so and so was here, i'm so lonely" well BAH! they don't know the half of it or at least can't remember the times when they were single and searching. It really gets to me, especially when they invite you to go out with all their mates and they're all coupled and you just feel all lonesome in the middle because no ones found you yet.
I've made my self depressed now
