Good guys finish last?

[Madame Adequate]

Hm. I think someone is confusing 'bad boy' with 'kinky'.

See, I like to think I'm an extremely nice guy. My girl seems happy with that, and I wouldn't want to be with someone who didn't like me being nice and caring anyways.

This does not in any way preclude chains and paddles. I'm likely the nicest guy half my female friends will ever meet, but I'm also likely the kinkiest.

Unfortunately among the loudest groups are the following two: Wild-eyed castrate-'em-all feminists, and self-hating idiots who go for men who have zero concept of being anything except a wife-beating loser. The fact that both groups speak with what they believe to be absolute authority on behalf of the other doesn't help, because it makes women look even more indecisive than they already are.

I don't understand how a bad boy could be exciting. Worrying that I'll be beaten because he's drunk/high, or cheated on because he's bored, sounds less like excitement and more like pointless pain.

[Miriel]

The 1st part is a complete lie. The second is true though. For example:

When it comes to another female, a woman may say "Oh, i wish i could find a guy whos soo sweet like that.", but when it is the woman herself its "Ur not my type, but lets be friends."

Sheesh. I could say the exact same things about guys. "Oh, you're really sweet and everything, but you're like a sister to me! Now that girl over there with the implants...she's a different story."

Besides, I think that "nice" is a horrible word to describe anyone. Girl or guy.

[Reles]

All guys are BAD!

(If you're using kinky as your description of bad...)

[Odaisé Gaelach]

I suppose, at the end of the day, it depends on what really glues in a relationship. It's all down to, as Bono put it, "the mysterious distance between a man and a woman."

[MushroomZOMBIE]

LOVE SUCKS.Period. :shoot:

[Madame Adequate]

Sheesh. I could say the exact same things about guys. "Oh, you're really sweet and everything, but you're like a sister to me! Now that girl over there with the implants...she's a different story."

Besides, I think that "nice" is a horrible word to describe anyone. Girl or guy.

If a girl was like a sister to me, she'd be far more likely to attract my desire than some random woman with large breasts. And I say that rejected Freudian theory. And I also say that given that someone I used to refer to as 'little sis' has gone on to be my girlfriend for quite some time now, and a wonderful relationship it is at that. It's like going out with a funny, smart, gorgeous, infinitely self-replenishing pie.

Nice. An adjective. Generally taken to mean something along the lines of 'agreeable or pleasant'. Synonyms include 'amiable', 'favorable', 'kindly', and 'obliging'. 'Courteous' is also very apt.

Yes, I'm quite certain calling someone nice would cause justified offence. :rolleyes2

[Miriel]

Nice is nice. Nice is bland. Nice is vague.

"You're a nice girl." - It's the kind of mediocre, flimsy and ineffectual adjective you would throw out when you're not really interested enough to come up with something more descriptive.

[Madame Adequate]

Nice is nice. Nice is bland. Nice is vague.

"You're a nice girl." - It's the kind of mediocre, flimsy and ineffectual adjective you would throw out when you're not really interested enough to come up with something more descriptive.

Or when you've had your memory wiped so well you can't think up any other adjectives. Moreover, you've watched Eternal Sunshine of the Spotless Mind too many times, and you're losing perspective. No, it's not the best thing you can say to someone, but it's a very long way from being a bad thing, too.

[Shlup]

I voted for all of the options.

[Peegee]

Yeah well if I had my way I'd have to set up a 'safety word' before sex started. But I can totally fake being a 'nice guy' -- just don't say anything and do what people tell me.

But whatever. Nice guys, they tend to end up with a woman who is just 'omg he can provide for my child!'. Which is fine, except ~10% of the world's population are bastard children who believe their biological father is just that -- a nice guy. (Statistics came from blood tests)

[44 caliber]

Bad boys. Comforting a crying ninny isn't sexy.

[Devourment]

I don't mean good lads like that. I mean a sensitive man, who is true to his emotions with a woman & shows her love & respect & cares for her, but will stand up for her whatever the matter. A sensitive man is not always nesseceraly(sp?) someome who is a wimp.

I'm a sensitive person & I'm definitely no whimp.

[Nod]

I think you may have gotten confused between 'good guys' and 'pussies'.


EDIT: I just read your above post, thus i see you have not gotten confused between the two.

Suffice to say, good guys do not finish last, in my experience.

[Swordicanus]

Well all the girls seem to go for the big headed assholes in my school they're not intrested if your not a prick

[MushroomZOMBIE]

Because the girls in your school are stupid :biggrin: