Yep, I know what you mean, but its not a connection to characters its a fear that I haven't done everything there is to do. Im always scared I missed something or I haven't powered up enough. I hate fighting a boss battle and losing, Its like I have failed my characters somehow. I am their general and commander, and I lead them to their slaughter. I always get nervous fighting a tough boss. The last time I failed was in FFVIII (like 2 weeks ago) when i fought Brothers for the first time, i didn't have any floats and got whooped. I felt terrible for Squall, Quistis and Irvine.