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    Unhappy To lose a loved one...

    My dog dog died yesterday, August 5th 2005... i loved her a lot, and knew her my whole life, we were even the same age, 15...

    i'm sure a lot of people know how it feels to lose someone in their family or their pets or anything, so if anybody wants to pay respect, please do... and even honor ur own loved one's death... never forget. always remember the good things about them.
    and some people might not think that losing a pet is not a big of a deal as other things, but to me, i was really close to my dog... and i was gone for a whole month and didn't even get to say bye, because she was being taken care of by my uncle. and it sux a lot to not be able to say goodbye or spend the last days with someone... so everybody cherish the ones they have now...please.

    also, if u wanna talk about lost loved ones or say anything about them, u can right here, everybody's listening...

    Thank you Hysterian!

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    First of all, I'm sorry for your loss. Anyways, I've lost quite a few people in my family, strange I never felt sad; mainly because I'm as strong as I am. I learned how to accept death as a part of life, by accepting death, you won't get sad or disappointed in life.



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    I feel for you. I've lost a pet, and family members, and yeah, it hurts, but it gets a lot easier to handle as time goes on. The first few days are always the hardest.

    RIP G SpOtZ's dog.


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    Sorry for your loss.


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    I feel really sorry for you, I have lost pets in the past. Also, just earlier today I found out that a good friend of mine passed away from cancer, though, she died in June. I just didn't know. I even changed the quote in my sig to show how I feel about these twists in fate.

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    my grandmother died like 6 years ago or something and thats really the only time i was really sad that someone died to the point that i cried cause we were really close

    then at the beginning of the year my best friends dad died, it wasnt that sad but just one of those things that makes you say wow and really think
    and he was to all of his friends too like we would talk and hang out with him when we were all over, so...

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    I'm sorry, GS. Animals are just like part of the family, at least for me, and it really hard when they pass away. I've lost a lot of family members, as well as pets, and it is never easy. But time does help to ease the pain a lot.
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    i know how u feel, my dog, the one in the middle, is not dead but almost, im scared an dont want him to die, but i think it might be for the best, he is in pain because of infections that keep coming back an hes almost blind an deaf

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    That's really sad. My fiance's dog is about 15 or older and I'm afraid of the day he'll go because I know how much my fiance loves him. You'll never forget your first doggy.

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    thats true, from now on im wont moan when he farts on me or tries to hump me cuz i never know when hes gonna go

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    it's always the worst when they're suffering... my dog was supposed to have passed away earlier than she did, but she hung in there. she was diagnosed with cancer and diabetes, and begun to grow a tumor on her neck. she really hung in there and i'm really proud of her, but the tumor grew too large and punctured the skin from inside out... that's when we had to put her to sleep. i just hope everybody has been able to say goodbye to their loved ones and at leasat spend their days with them...

    thx everybody so far who's payed their respects...

    Thank you Hysterian!

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    she sounds like she sufferd a great deal and u did the right thing to put her down, i hope she has gone to doggy heaven and remember it will get better over time, she will always be in your heart.

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    I lost my cat 2 or 3 years ago. The night before we put him asleep I cried so hard. He was my first cat. We think he died from kidney failure or something like that. Then we got a guinea pig but she died a few weeks ago. So I know how you feel.
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    *repeats Nas song*

    Can we please have a moment to mourn??

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    Quote Originally Posted by G SpOtZ
    it's always the worst when they're suffering... my dog was supposed to have passed away earlier than she did, but she hung in there. she was diagnosed with cancer and diabetes, and begun to grow a tumor on her neck. she really hung in there and i'm really proud of her, but the tumor grew too large and punctured the skin from inside out... that's when we had to put her to sleep. i just hope everybody has been able to say goodbye to their loved ones and at leasat spend their days with them...

    thx everybody so far who's payed their respects...
    That's a lot like what happened to my friend, I call her my friend because she was a good friend with all of her students, she was my Spanish teacher. If you look in my profile you will see that my favorite subject is Spanish. She was a great teacher and made it really fun. I was really looking forward to be in her class again this fall. The first month of last year she was gone because she was in chemotherapy because she had breast cancer. Throughout the year she tried her best to make everyone happy, even with her sickness. A another friend e-mailed me earlier because she was worried about me, because she thought I had known. "She's in a better place now, with God, no more pain, no more cancer..." I've reflected upon these words but still, I wish I could have said goodbye. At least I got to say goodbye to all of my grandparents who've died in the past.

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