Quote Originally Posted by udsuna
Quote Originally Posted by Optium
You, like most of the other people who've replied in this topic, are basically exaggerating what someone else has said to further your argument. I obviously didn't say that, I said nobody knows what they'd do in that situation, and to think that you're "holier than thou" in that respect is one of the most big-headed things I've heard.
.opt
Uh... didn't you catch the part, I know I've said it at least 2 or 3 times... where I pointed out that I have had the situation. I've had the opportunity, and I "passed" that test. Frankly, it wasn't even a "test"... that implies that I had difficulty in controlling myself. Not so. I never even considered it, outside of an intellectual hypothetical situation.
Maybe you missed the part where I addressed that...in my first reply
to you.

EDIT And even then, it was my concern for her well-being (getting wasted to the point of passing out after having invited several friends... not quite as wasted, all men, at that point... over to an otherwise empty house). I noted that any of them could violate her a dozen ways and she'd never know, then realized I could do the same, then promptly said "dude, that's just not cool" and left it at that.

And if this pig-headed individual can do it, any decent human can. And anyone who cannot, doesn't deserve to live. Like I said, I'd carry out my own sentance by my own hand, should I deserve it.
That was the situation where you found that you could control your
sexual desires? Sorry man, but that's not much of an accomplishment,
I'm sure almost every guy here who's been to a party has been in that
situation and most have probably gotten over it. I've been in it numerous
times at a girl's house who I really had a thing for, but since I was more
sober than most of the other people there--only high, not drunk--it
turned out that I'd always end up looking out for her so that other guys
who couldn't control their urges (or worse, the ones who were at the
party for the sole purpose of finding a girl who was in that position)
wouldn't take advantage of her.

Congratulations though, you're mediocre.

EDIT: Listen to shlup... shlup is good... shlup is wise... shlup believes that people should be beholden to their own actions, no matter what crybaby excuses they use.

EDIT (again): well, I've gotta go. I'll come back to read whatever disgusting excuse you try and provide for this time. Even though any excuse that might exist is about the same thing as trying to use a napkin to block the energy wake of a nuclear bomb.
See, the problem here is that a lot of people are still saying that others
are making excuses when that's not the case. An excuse would be
forgiving their actions due to circumstances, but that's not really the
case. I don't forgive or condone their actions. The problem is, you're all
acting as if it's the worst thing that could ever happen, when in fact
it's not. If you're going to say it is, then you're obviously mistaken since
all you need to do is look at the punishment for different crimes and
you'll see that there are worse things, according to society as a whole.
Some have said that it's worse than murder and that dealing with the
consequences of it are worse than being dead, but the question that
remains is why doesn't everyone who's been through it kill themselves?
Is it possible that dealing with the consequences of it aren't in fact
worse than death? Seems to me that's the only real reason.

.opt