Like, I would want my Kid to live in a good safe area, if I am finacially not doing well, its not fair on me or the babyOriginally Posted by Seymour_Guado_Goth
:mad2: Hey it's not about that it's about love man! I am sickened by that. Babies do cost but what is so bad about it? Everyone was a baby and imagined if you found out your mom/dad said that beforeyou were born? It would make you feel terrible :(
Also, I would make a bad dad....
Don't mindlessly churn out babies like it's supposedly a universal norm. I personally will either use my dna to permanently alter the entire planet or refuse to father children, depending on my outlook in life by then.
Either it's worth warping the planet in my image or it isn't worth trying to save.
Agreed.
"Feed me."
Its a difference in times and morals.
The trend will contiue and most likely get worst. When i was working at a retail store, I saw a mini tube and supper tight, supper short shorts that could only have fit a toddler. This truely sadened me, partly because (this was branded as a workout outfit) no toddler needs a workout outfit unless the parent is just dressing them up to be seen while they workout somewhere, and because it was branded with barbie all over it.
I work with children of many ages, and I love watching them and knowing that their is a carefree innocence in them. To watch them enjoying life this way is what makes me love working with them. I know that these children dont understand (fully) the implications of wearing such things. As such the parents should stop them, in my opinion, from doing that sort of thing until they can fully make the choice understanding all the consequeces. That is something I dont think a kid could do until teenage, but then I guess I could be wrong.
Do i blame parents when i see it? I must admit my first thought is to do so. But their is another part of me that knows that a parent isnt in control of a kid 24/7. they cant control their dress when at a friends house per say. So I think the best that can be said is I feel sorry for the future.
I've wanted a family of my own since I was six years old. Why? Because I've always believed I'd be the best family man in existence.ya, I actually dont want to have children.........its very hard finding a partner that has the same views which is a large drag..
I actually do wear alot, the teachers dont stop me though as they do with some of the other girls.I totally agree. I see girls walking around in mini-skirts and boots already. It's frightening and I feel bad for even looking at the kid.
And kids wear make up much too early. I only was allowed to wear make up when I started high school. That's a bit strict, but 13 years old (I was 14 when I was allowed) is fine to me. But I don't cake it on. I wear eyeliner and a bit of mascara, that's it. Too much make up is disgusting.
I myself am not a fan of little baby girls having their ears pierced x___x
I had my ears pierced when i was 10 and it made me cry then so imagine a 3 year old? uh.. awful ;___;
Id love to have children though, and i plan to do so.
I have names already :<3:
I babysit my 6 year old cousin on week days. Once or twice I told her to go get changed from her PJ's and she came downstairs in clothes that I first thought were a bikini. The first day she came down stairs in these clothes I didnt say anything even though I wanted to but the second day I told her it was too cold out to wear those clothes which was an excuse I made up on the spot. I dont want to be the one to tell a six year old shes dressing too sexy. I wasnt sexually attracted in the least bit please understand but because she was dressed like this so young I felt way more uncomfortable mentioning this than I would have if she was a 14 year old.
i hope to god you're being sarcastic.
a lot of parents that are letting their kids go around like this are in the 18-35 age range. they probably still watch MTV, VH1, all that stuff, and think it's perfectly fine and normal for girls of all ages to buy a $200 strip of fabric, pull it up around the middle of her hips, decide against it and pull it down a few inches further and go to the mall, strutting around. it's...really not natural.
i was at the mall the other day and passed this girl in a store that looked to be 6 or 7 years old. she was wearing what could only have been a bikini top, a micro mini that couldn't have been longer than the length from my wrist to the tip of my fingers, and boots. the killer? she was sitting in Claires getting her belly button pierced. the woman standing next to her, i assumed it was the mother...she looked so proud.
i swear, society is corrupted beyond words.
G SpOtZ is god.
rcabronx is his goddess.
and i.....i am their Ruby Weapon.
Nice to know you people think dirty thoughts about kids instead of just seeing them trying to emulate adults.
If we didn't think dirty thoughts all the time this wouldn't be an issue.
I think it's stupid and trashy for most people to wear bikini tops when they're not at the beach, but whatever.
And about the shirt thing, I was allowed to walk around shirtless/half naked until I started getting nubs around 8. Then I was forever confined to shirtitude.
it's fine for kids to emulate adults, it's how they learn, but a parent has to be responsible for what their children emulate. If their child emulates whory behavior, the parent should act accordingly. Unless, of course, the parent doesn't find this behavior "wrong". Then they're probably just trashy people and there's nothing you can do about that.
Signature by rubah. I think.
so, essentially, you all think that kids are wearing clothes that are to 'sexy' right?
<PaperStar> live fast, die young, bad plefs do it well
yes. precisely.
G SpOtZ is god.
rcabronx is his goddess.
and i.....i am their Ruby Weapon.
wow I thought you were gonna say you didn't wanna raise a daughter because once she reaches her teenage years and start having periods and PMS that you wouldn't wanna deal with it.I just don't. I wouldn't have the patience. My sister leads a horrible life, and I see my mother is in a lot of pain because of her, I could never go through that. As just her brother I feel guilty she chose the path she did, let alone the one who raised her? No. I couldn't take that kind of responsibility.Er... any reason?
EXACTLY! I wasn't allowed to wear makeup until i was 15! Of course... i only wear it during plays...I totally agree. I see girls walking around in mini-skirts and boots already. It's frightening and I feel bad for even looking at the kid.
And kids wear make up much too early. I only was allowed to wear make up when I started high school. That's a bit strict, but 13 years old (I was 14 when I was allowed) is fine to me. But I don't cake it on. I wear eyeliner and a bit of mascara, that's it. Too much make up is disgusting.
Girls ask not to be subject to sexism... and then some of them dress like this and negatively influence those around them. *sigh* Dirty little tramps...
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