I don't really like the ripped up pants fashion. At the very least, do it yourself, but having it pre-ripped is dumb. I have one pair of pants with ripping, but I didn't even realise it unless I wore them. I'd have put them back, but I have a hard time finding pants that fit good as I'm a short not size 6 female.

Slutwear depresses me. I have a hard time finding good clothes too. My remedy is to wear cute younger girl t-shirts with Oscar the Grouch or Cookie Monster, because they don't sluttify the Seseme Street stuff. Or just wear band t-shirts. The only generally unslutty store that I can find is Hot Topic. I buy some clothes there, but the only problem is that most fall too much into that "gawth punx emo" label with all the skulls and stuff and I'm not any of those, and most of the outfits are too expensive or too big. So I settle with just buying t-shirts there.