Her frist day at JR High
Well this is about my friend and she is very upstead and she needs help.
She has not made any friends yet and she has really hard homework.
And her Mom has a BF so she can't always be with her.
What can she do?
I talked to her alot and she was crying about it too.
She has to get up at 6:30 to 2 something, but the work is goning to get harder and she is really upstead.
What can I say and do for her?
:(
She should probably go to the school cousoler, but once I take psychology next semester, I'll get back to ya
The first few weeks/months of school are always the toughest. It always gets easier. Also, it's not a big deal that she hasn't made friends yet on the very first day. Not a whole lot of people do.
What kind of Junior High is she going to? If it's a public school she is just being whiney and over exagerating her workload tenfold. As for the friend thing... it's the first day. And it's Junior high.
Sounds pretty Emo to me.
shouldn't this be in eyes on eachother?
school is hard for the first few months. trying to be cool and cop with the work.
get her to talk to someone at ther school....a form tutor or the nicest seeming teacher.
Trust No one
This is another one of those "I have a friend who" things.
there was a picture here
i can answer in one word, drink. Or she can just go and play sports, thats always a good way of meeting people.
Wow. That sucks. Her mom should spend more time with her
Yeah, don't post things requesting help/advice/comfort in the general chat area.... you get some "interesting" replies from a lot of jackasses who don't have any empathic ability, or even basic dignity.
But, on your subject, I advise your "friend" (let's be honest, almost no one's going to believe it's not you, even if it isn't)... anyways, she should try toughing it out. Getting upset over the *first day* is just disappointingly over-emotional.
However, what no one here seems to realize, is that school is almost certainly NOT the real issue. I promise you, whatever the problem, it's far more important than her new adventures in school. Can't tell you what's up, as I don't have a great deal of information to work with, but it has to do with her home/personal life. Or she could simply be a sympathy whore. But that's always caused by something, too... so, again, don't look at the obvious "school" answer, it's not school that's causing the problem. Beyond that, I don't know what to tell you.
Jackass? I prefer Jackeestlinc myself. Besides, this doesn't deserve empathy. you said yourself here that...Originally Posted by udsuna
Emo.
So what, it doesn't stop the fact that it's Emo. You can't pick your family. So pick some friends. Your inability to not be able to get friends is no one elses fault but your own. Whining about it only makes it worse.
The great thing is, udsuna has "No Eyes on Each Other for me".
there was a picture here
Because I got into a heated discussion with a couple people who were actually defending child molesters. But, yeah, crossed the line on that one. What gets in my craw isn't the temporary block, it's that the other offenders didn't.
Oh, and Pauper, neither you nor I have any freaking clue what might actually be wrong with the girl. For all we know, she's being molested by her mom's new boyfriend. So don't make judgements like that until you actually know that you have enough of the story. Everyone should follow that rule, I think.
Last edited by udsuna; 08-24-2005 at 08:29 PM.
I like Kung-Fu.
I'd suggest you tell your friend to kill herself, it's only going to go downhill from here, so might as well end it on a relative high.
Suicide pacts are often a good way of making friends too, try that.
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