Why do girls love gay men?

[Yooniece]

Erm. Not all gay men. In fact, most women are only known to become friends with effeminate gay men. All my gay friends are flamboyant, loud, and in a sense "girlier" than I am. There's a stereotype gay man that many women think they wish to befriend... (thanks Will and Grace) The kind of cute, funny, fun effeminate man that can give them insight on the male psyche, fashion advice and a referral to a good hairstylist with nothing but a platonic relationship. I'll admit it, I treat my gay male friends like I would my giggly girlfriends... but I think the whole "I want a gay best guy friend" thing is overrated. I've known a lot of effeminate gay men to be just as, if not more, BITCHY than the average women. It's probably just because I live by Beverly Hills though.

[Sapphiresea]

Umm cuz the Pick out the best shoes...daa JK, but really I have no Idea!! :P

[Roto13]

Erm. Not all gay men. In fact, most women are only known to become friends with effeminate gay men. All my gay friends are flamboyant, loud, and in a sense "girlier" than I am. There's a stereotype gay man that many women think they wish to befriend... (thanks Will and Grace) The kind of cute, funny, fun effeminate man that can give them insight on the male psyche, fashion advice and a referral to a good hairstylist with nothing but a platonic relationship. I'll admit it, I treat my gay male friends like I would my giggly girlfriends... but I think the whole "I want a gay best guy friend" thing is overrated. I've known a lot of effeminate gay men to be just as, if not more, BITCHY than the average women. It's probably just because I live by Beverly Hills though.

[DMKA]

It's probably just because I live by Beverly Hills though.

I lol'd so hard.

[Xaven]

Almost all of my friends are girls. I think it's because they know I won't be staring at they're breasts all day and they can relate to me as to who they're attracted to.

[Yooniece]

I lol'd so hard.

Well, it's true. Gay men here are fabulous, stylish and beautiful... and a terror to get into a bitch fight with.

[Saint Rinoa]

Well, it's true. Gay men here are fabulous, stylish and beautiful... and a terror to get into a bitch fight with.

Haha, that's true because I grew up not too far from Beverly Hills.

I like gay men because I don't have to worry about them wanting to get with me, and because they make my dad angry.

[ZeZipster]

I'm going to go off topic and ask why do gay guys like to be stereotyped? Seriously, if I was gay I wouldn't want to be different than every one else or even accepted as something different. When gay guys accept these stereotypes, they're accepting a form of segregation, even if it's of their own accord. It's like dignifying that there is a difference between heterosexual and homeosexual that isn't on a sexual level, which only further alienates more conservative males.

Sometimes I wonder if I'd act the same way I do if I was gay...

[Xaven]

I don't like to be stereotyped. I am myself, not that image that all of people get when they think of gays in general.

[ZeZipster]

I don't like to be stereotyped. I am myself, not that image that all of people get when they think of gays in general.

That's refreshing... after watching a couple episodes of Queer Eye for the Straight Guy I was beginning to wonder if there were any gay guys that even cared about individuality.

[Roto13]

That's refreshing... after watching a couple episodes of Queer Eye for the Straight Guy I was beginning to wonder if there were any gay guys that even cared about individuality.

*stabs you*

REAL gay men aren't like the uberqueers from TV!

Those people wouldn't even BE on TV if they weren't like clowns.

[Dignified Pauper]

I don't think many gay men like to fall into stereotypes. However, the ones that do are just so damned prominent about their sexuality and "proud" but blech. I wouldn't dress like a freak to get attention and form a parade, but I am proud.

Look, you're all douchebags, that's what I say to most gay people. Yep, they sure are. Who cares, I'm better than everyone anyways. I'm elite.

[Roto13]

I wouldn't dress like a freak to get attention and form a parade, but I am proud.

Damn. The drag queens are the worst.

[DMKA]

I never knew there were so many gay bods here.

It's a Final Fantasy based site...what did you expect?

[Sephex]

Because most girls want what they can't have.