Giving or Receiving?

[Jess]

and refused because???

u could've just accepted and you couldv'e give him something

I am buying him something. I didn't refuse, I just disagree with him spending a lot of money on me when he doesn't have to. I'd rather him to keep his money and buy stuff for himself. He doesn't have to spend lots of money on me to show he cares, as I already said.

...and, how about the both option? both is good, but i receive more than i give, xD.

I recieve more than I give, too. If I had the choice I would give more than I recieve - but lack of money is an issue.