need help choosing a good RPG

[X-Dragon]

Get Legaia 2 duel saga on ps2

[Dragoon Kain]

shadow hearts 1 and 2 and for the heck of it play koudelka too. best games ever.

[NeoCracker]

I'd Definately Recomend the Xenosaga Series.
Also there's Phantom Brave and LA Pucelle tactics, both have similarities to the FFT battle system. Shadow Hearts was sweet, excpecially the pro-wrestling vampire obsessed with Justice. And the Wild arm Games were awsome, exspecially 2, OOOh, Rail Gun, *drool*
Can't forget Katamari Damacy either. I will say it is an RPG even though it isn't, because its fun.

[Dreddz]

I'd recommened Dark Chronicle as my first choice, that will own your life after a while, its a Epic and Mammoth game, get it.
If not, Alundra good, if you like action rpgs that ix. Xenogears is an obvious choice, but if you live anywhere besides USA and Japan, you probably wont be able to get it.