Well on this forum there are two prevalent servers:

1.) Midgardsormr where i am and some others
2.) and Pademonium which Miriel is in.

Either one should be fine..i cant say much for Pandy since i aint that but i am pretty sure its not that different in terms of the general feel outside of the forum members you will interact with. o.o

PS2 should be fine with anything, i am guessing its a DSL type of connection so it should be fine since even 56K can play this.

But yes whatever you do brady isnt that great or accurate..